Thought this year I can be a successful trader at the end of it but now looking back at all the screw-ups and depleted trading funds ( forex and stocks ), just cannot help but to feel "sad".
There are some lessons to be learned from all these bad situations....first thing is not to set any daily profit target becoz in doing so is to force self to trade even when no clear set-up in the charts. So....when started to loose money, tend to over analyized what wrong then totally start to loose self confidence which caused more stresses to self.
Then the self bashing started to set-in which resulted in having the depression and the "rotten" feeling of it all. Plus also having suicidial thoughts which was really the "pits". Luckily....slowly I was able to see thru the whole picture and slow down the trading therefore the losses. At the same time....look for advices via the net and friends. Now....slowly starting back over again and felt good to trade "small" again. So...for the past month, I was able to have small gains plus starting to have my self confidence back too.
Now with better money management and trading small....I hope to slowly get back on my feet again and will happily trade on part-time basis, less stress and also happier to trade win or loose. Believed...in a longer run, I can be a more succussful trader too. Btw success now to me may not mean to make big money daily....but to be able to enjoy trading and can make some coffee money without all the stresses. That would be just fine, better
if can made back the course fees.
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Trading Forex Part Time – Your Best Chance at Success by Nial Fuller
PLEASE READ TODAY’S ARTICLE AND LISTEN TO THE ADVICE IT WILL HELP YOU.. ALOT!.
I want you all to understand, that it does not matter if you are employed, a business owner, retired or etc etc , my advice will remain the same – Your first goal must be to become a “Part time trader and student”. DO NOT fool yourself and believe that you take up trading and replace your income and become a full time trader in the short term. I built my reputation on honesty and integrity and you all should know by now, ALL of my posts are genuine insights and truths on the topic of trading. So if you are a novice trader, a struggling trader.. or basically if you are into trading or even trying to become a pro trader, then this article is for you.
Keeping it Part Time Early in Your Trading Career.
The majority of people that get interested in forex trading do so because they are unhappy with their job or with the current amount of money they are making, or both. They think they will be able to quit their job and become a full-time forex trader in a relatively short period of time, and it is this thinking that actually sets the stage for losing money in the forex market and for making their journey to become a consistently profitable trader extended and difficult. The reason why having an overwhelming desire to become a full-time forex trader can actually be detrimental to your trading success is simply because it makes you feel like you NEED to trade or that you have no other options for happiness in life. To succeed at making money consistently in the forex market, you need to operate from the mindset that you don’t really need to trade, this will work to positively affect your trading and will actually make it easier to profit consistently in the market. The Pressures on the mind when the trader feels like he/she must make a trade in order to make money to pay for the rent /mortgage or other living exspenses will ultimately lead to ongoing failure. That is just one aspect and evidence why new and aspiring traders MUST keep their trading a part time endeavor in the initial stages to escape the mental pressures and emotional roller coaster. The less time you spend trading and thinking of the market the better in my opinion.
• Part time trading; keep your day job
As a beginning forex trader, it is important that you realize early on the significance of not devoting all your energy to just trading. No matter what your current job situation is, you need to maintain it and excel at it, and always work to keep it a priority in your life, if you lose your job or quit your job thinking you can take up full time trading, you will stand no chance at becoming a successful trader. At first, you need to keep trading a part time goal, once you learn the ropes and master the art and skill of successfully reading a price chart, then you can set your sights on becoming a full-time trader. I always say, this is NOT something you can rush.
Keeping your day job and having a secure source of income is crucial to maintaining the proper trading mindset, you don’t want to be operating in the market from the point of view that you have no other options, and that your trading has to work out. Trading only part-time will also help to keep you out of the market, this may sound counter-productive at first, but over-trading is probably the biggest cause of failure among forex traders. By taking a part-time approach to the market you can avoid trading addiction easier because you will be forced into a routine of looking at the market at certain intervals each day, rather than being glued to your computer screen.
• Lose the “get rich quick” mentality
Many traders, if not most, come into the forex market thinking they are going to get rich quick, if they don’t openly express this sentiment they are certainly thinking it or hoping for it somewhere in their mind. While there certainly is nothing wrong with wanting to make money in the market and believing you can do it, when it becomes an all-consuming thought, and you think it will or should happen really fast, you are setting yourself up for failure. Traders who feel like they are going to get rich quick in the market inevitably end up over-analyzing it, essentially they think by looking at their charts and / or reading as many economic articles as possible, they will somehow gain an “edge” just because they are putting in a full-time effort.
The reality of this “get rich quick” mentality is that it ends up causing you to attempt to control the market, whether you realize it or not, when you stay up all night staring at your charts until your eyes burn you are subconsciously trying to control the uncontrollable, and the more you do this, the more you get caught up in actually believing that the increasing time you are spending watching the market is paying off, or going to pay off. So, in essence, by believing you can “get rich quick” in the forex market, you ultimately end up spending massive amounts of time over-analyzing market variables, this causes indecision and emotional trading, which ultimately causes you to lose money.
It is simply a myth that forex trading is a quick and easy fix for income; it’s not possible to make quick and easy money on a consistent basis, unless you are doing something illegal. Traders need to have realistic expectations when coming into the market, by taking a part-time approach to the market you will keep your mind clear and you will trade from a nearly stress-free mindset. The reality of trading the market is that the only thing you can control is yourself, the more control you have over your own actions, the more success you will have in the market. It is easy to fool yourself into thinking you are controlling yourself even as you over-trade and over-leverage your trading account, but when you really step back and think objectively about every action you take in the market, it becomes much clearer as to whether or not your actions are logical or emotional.
The ironic and perhaps metaphorical aspect of forex trading is that taking a part-time approach, or a “less is more” approach will actually make you more money faster, because you will be far less likely to trade emotionally when you accept the fact that you can make money by only trading a few times a week or less. So, to really make consistent money in the forex market, you need to accept the fact that it’s not going to happen fast, unless you are risking way too much and get lucky a few times in a row, or if you have a very large sum of money to begin trading with.
• Part-time trading helps keep you accountable
Probably the biggest reason why making money consistently in the forex market is difficult for most people is because there is no one to be accountable to. Unlike your current boss, who will fire you if you lose money for the company or do something else he or she doesn’t like, the forex market will not fire you no matter how much money you lose, it doesn’t even know you exist or how much money you have or don’t have, or anything else. To put it succinctly, you have to figure out a way to make yourself accountable if you want to excel at forex trading.
Being a part-time trader forces you to study and trade higher time frames, if you work a full-time job you are probably going to have to trade off the daily charts. This is actually a blessing in disguise though, despite what many traders think there really is no advantage to trading the lower time frames. Sometimes you can improve your entry by trading the 4 hour or 1 hour chart, but because the market provides daily setups each week for traders to take advantage of, there is no real reason to feel like you NEED to trade any time frame lower than the daily. Essentially, trading part-time forces you to master the higher time frames early on in your career, when it is the most critical to do so, then as your talent and skill begin to show you can start implementing lower time frames to improve your entries or exits. Many traders unfortunately take the reverse course of action; they start out by analyzing the lower time frames, and only after losing tons of money and time to these noise-infused charts, do they finally figure out and accept that trading less frequently on the higher time frames is key to making consistent money in the forex market.
POWER....another good piece of advice from Nial. Why? It's becoz I have gone thru some of these stressful situations trying to make money daily after I got lucky and more than double my funding in a "10 days winning run" then after that I thought I can do better by spending more time analyzing the lower time frame charts to score more money but in the end....confused myself and lose the winning touch. As a result....wiped out the winnings and my fund together with my own confidence. SHIT! The worst I did was that I set a daily target of making at least $200 or more.
That to me....was the biggest mistake becoz I were setting myself to fail. Now....I'm back slowly again starting to trade with micro lots and at the same time to spend less time glued to the pc by doing the same things that I did during the "winning run" just look at the weekly then daily charts....once spotted a trending pattern then go to 3hrs and hourly charts to confirm. Only when I need to set entry order...I will go to the 15 mins chart, same for my exit or take profit setting. Yes....I am happier and less stressed out by doing all these again. I have a life....swimming, sauna, gym and doing the things I like.
I want you all to understand, that it does not matter if you are employed, a business owner, retired or etc etc , my advice will remain the same – Your first goal must be to become a “Part time trader and student”. DO NOT fool yourself and believe that you take up trading and replace your income and become a full time trader in the short term. I built my reputation on honesty and integrity and you all should know by now, ALL of my posts are genuine insights and truths on the topic of trading. So if you are a novice trader, a struggling trader.. or basically if you are into trading or even trying to become a pro trader, then this article is for you.
Keeping it Part Time Early in Your Trading Career.
The majority of people that get interested in forex trading do so because they are unhappy with their job or with the current amount of money they are making, or both. They think they will be able to quit their job and become a full-time forex trader in a relatively short period of time, and it is this thinking that actually sets the stage for losing money in the forex market and for making their journey to become a consistently profitable trader extended and difficult. The reason why having an overwhelming desire to become a full-time forex trader can actually be detrimental to your trading success is simply because it makes you feel like you NEED to trade or that you have no other options for happiness in life. To succeed at making money consistently in the forex market, you need to operate from the mindset that you don’t really need to trade, this will work to positively affect your trading and will actually make it easier to profit consistently in the market. The Pressures on the mind when the trader feels like he/she must make a trade in order to make money to pay for the rent /mortgage or other living exspenses will ultimately lead to ongoing failure. That is just one aspect and evidence why new and aspiring traders MUST keep their trading a part time endeavor in the initial stages to escape the mental pressures and emotional roller coaster. The less time you spend trading and thinking of the market the better in my opinion.
• Part time trading; keep your day job
As a beginning forex trader, it is important that you realize early on the significance of not devoting all your energy to just trading. No matter what your current job situation is, you need to maintain it and excel at it, and always work to keep it a priority in your life, if you lose your job or quit your job thinking you can take up full time trading, you will stand no chance at becoming a successful trader. At first, you need to keep trading a part time goal, once you learn the ropes and master the art and skill of successfully reading a price chart, then you can set your sights on becoming a full-time trader. I always say, this is NOT something you can rush.
Keeping your day job and having a secure source of income is crucial to maintaining the proper trading mindset, you don’t want to be operating in the market from the point of view that you have no other options, and that your trading has to work out. Trading only part-time will also help to keep you out of the market, this may sound counter-productive at first, but over-trading is probably the biggest cause of failure among forex traders. By taking a part-time approach to the market you can avoid trading addiction easier because you will be forced into a routine of looking at the market at certain intervals each day, rather than being glued to your computer screen.
• Lose the “get rich quick” mentality
Many traders, if not most, come into the forex market thinking they are going to get rich quick, if they don’t openly express this sentiment they are certainly thinking it or hoping for it somewhere in their mind. While there certainly is nothing wrong with wanting to make money in the market and believing you can do it, when it becomes an all-consuming thought, and you think it will or should happen really fast, you are setting yourself up for failure. Traders who feel like they are going to get rich quick in the market inevitably end up over-analyzing it, essentially they think by looking at their charts and / or reading as many economic articles as possible, they will somehow gain an “edge” just because they are putting in a full-time effort.
The reality of this “get rich quick” mentality is that it ends up causing you to attempt to control the market, whether you realize it or not, when you stay up all night staring at your charts until your eyes burn you are subconsciously trying to control the uncontrollable, and the more you do this, the more you get caught up in actually believing that the increasing time you are spending watching the market is paying off, or going to pay off. So, in essence, by believing you can “get rich quick” in the forex market, you ultimately end up spending massive amounts of time over-analyzing market variables, this causes indecision and emotional trading, which ultimately causes you to lose money.
It is simply a myth that forex trading is a quick and easy fix for income; it’s not possible to make quick and easy money on a consistent basis, unless you are doing something illegal. Traders need to have realistic expectations when coming into the market, by taking a part-time approach to the market you will keep your mind clear and you will trade from a nearly stress-free mindset. The reality of trading the market is that the only thing you can control is yourself, the more control you have over your own actions, the more success you will have in the market. It is easy to fool yourself into thinking you are controlling yourself even as you over-trade and over-leverage your trading account, but when you really step back and think objectively about every action you take in the market, it becomes much clearer as to whether or not your actions are logical or emotional.
The ironic and perhaps metaphorical aspect of forex trading is that taking a part-time approach, or a “less is more” approach will actually make you more money faster, because you will be far less likely to trade emotionally when you accept the fact that you can make money by only trading a few times a week or less. So, to really make consistent money in the forex market, you need to accept the fact that it’s not going to happen fast, unless you are risking way too much and get lucky a few times in a row, or if you have a very large sum of money to begin trading with.
• Part-time trading helps keep you accountable
Probably the biggest reason why making money consistently in the forex market is difficult for most people is because there is no one to be accountable to. Unlike your current boss, who will fire you if you lose money for the company or do something else he or she doesn’t like, the forex market will not fire you no matter how much money you lose, it doesn’t even know you exist or how much money you have or don’t have, or anything else. To put it succinctly, you have to figure out a way to make yourself accountable if you want to excel at forex trading.
Being a part-time trader forces you to study and trade higher time frames, if you work a full-time job you are probably going to have to trade off the daily charts. This is actually a blessing in disguise though, despite what many traders think there really is no advantage to trading the lower time frames. Sometimes you can improve your entry by trading the 4 hour or 1 hour chart, but because the market provides daily setups each week for traders to take advantage of, there is no real reason to feel like you NEED to trade any time frame lower than the daily. Essentially, trading part-time forces you to master the higher time frames early on in your career, when it is the most critical to do so, then as your talent and skill begin to show you can start implementing lower time frames to improve your entries or exits. Many traders unfortunately take the reverse course of action; they start out by analyzing the lower time frames, and only after losing tons of money and time to these noise-infused charts, do they finally figure out and accept that trading less frequently on the higher time frames is key to making consistent money in the forex market.
POWER....another good piece of advice from Nial. Why? It's becoz I have gone thru some of these stressful situations trying to make money daily after I got lucky and more than double my funding in a "10 days winning run" then after that I thought I can do better by spending more time analyzing the lower time frame charts to score more money but in the end....confused myself and lose the winning touch. As a result....wiped out the winnings and my fund together with my own confidence. SHIT! The worst I did was that I set a daily target of making at least $200 or more.
That to me....was the biggest mistake becoz I were setting myself to fail. Now....I'm back slowly again starting to trade with micro lots and at the same time to spend less time glued to the pc by doing the same things that I did during the "winning run" just look at the weekly then daily charts....once spotted a trending pattern then go to 3hrs and hourly charts to confirm. Only when I need to set entry order...I will go to the 15 mins chart, same for my exit or take profit setting. Yes....I am happier and less stressed out by doing all these again. I have a life....swimming, sauna, gym and doing the things I like.
Wednesday, December 08, 2010
Forex and stock up-date
Didn't do much for both....therefore no big change for my funding. Hope the stocks may have a nice "pop" for the year-end rally so that can use the winning to pay for the COV haha.
I am holding on to the Genting, UOB and Ezra, so far....all are in the negative side. Fingers...crossed!
For forex.....very quiet since I don't have the time and focus to trade therefore not much happening in this area. Yes....only with a sharp focus then there maybe a chance to make some profits, cannot anyhow trade....surely will die if I do that.
4D....no luck, anyway I also don't but big so it is okay. Toto...yes! I do buy once in awhile but just $5 each time....maybe max $10 for 2 draws haha so it is still fine with not winning any money.
I am holding on to the Genting, UOB and Ezra, so far....all are in the negative side. Fingers...crossed!
For forex.....very quiet since I don't have the time and focus to trade therefore not much happening in this area. Yes....only with a sharp focus then there maybe a chance to make some profits, cannot anyhow trade....surely will die if I do that.
4D....no luck, anyway I also don't but big so it is okay. Toto...yes! I do buy once in awhile but just $5 each time....maybe max $10 for 2 draws haha so it is still fine with not winning any money.
It's Dec.....very soon 2010 is over.
Man....when I said how fast time flies, guessed it is an under-statement haha. Well, at least it's how thing is esp talking about time. Blink, blink and it's gone!
My lease for the condo....just left with another 6 months and now I am house hunting for the past 2 Sundays. Lucky that the COV is came down quite a fair bit. Now can still see some asking for 30 to 50K....and they have to wait "long long" lor. On the average....the asking COV is around 20 to 30K but the reasonable ones are those asking for around 10 to 20K esp for lower floor units or the older ones. For the newer ones....the valuation is still pretty high. Also noticed the Punggol has a higher valuation cpmpared to Sengkang. Therefore....planning to get in Sengkang around Blk 297 to 299 area for the sake of wifey and kids' transportation.
Went to Waterloo street temple on last Monday ( lunar 1st of 11th mth ) and took a chiam-see. Got no 69.....it is about the shoot of a cherry bloomson in winter looking dry and leaveless but come spring and it will be bloom into a nice plant with lovely flower. Meaning....must have the patient to wait and things will be fine. Same time....asked about the housing thingy but was advised to look to Yee Tee area. For the past 3 days I have been looking up the property ads plus on-line at I-property and Propertyguru sites.....but cannot help noticed the COV and valuation for the flats there. Yes, some of the older ones have a larger floor area but the look is not so in tune as in Punggol or even Sengkang. Unless go the newer ones near the end of Yee Tee and I went to have a look on last Sunday....noticed lots of FTs ( PRC and Indians ) as there are worker hostels there. Understand these people would sit and messed up the ground floor with their litters eg empty beer bottles and food packaging. So it is not safe.
At Punggol....went to view EA and 5I units, wow....some have very nice fixtures and in "move-in" standard but with higher COV. Also went to view Sengkang....and it is less by 30 to 50K in valuation for some units. The renovations for some are also "good". May have to break the advice if I go for Sengkang....and from the look of things, I will go with the flow with nothing casted in stone!
My lease for the condo....just left with another 6 months and now I am house hunting for the past 2 Sundays. Lucky that the COV is came down quite a fair bit. Now can still see some asking for 30 to 50K....and they have to wait "long long" lor. On the average....the asking COV is around 20 to 30K but the reasonable ones are those asking for around 10 to 20K esp for lower floor units or the older ones. For the newer ones....the valuation is still pretty high. Also noticed the Punggol has a higher valuation cpmpared to Sengkang. Therefore....planning to get in Sengkang around Blk 297 to 299 area for the sake of wifey and kids' transportation.
Went to Waterloo street temple on last Monday ( lunar 1st of 11th mth ) and took a chiam-see. Got no 69.....it is about the shoot of a cherry bloomson in winter looking dry and leaveless but come spring and it will be bloom into a nice plant with lovely flower. Meaning....must have the patient to wait and things will be fine. Same time....asked about the housing thingy but was advised to look to Yee Tee area. For the past 3 days I have been looking up the property ads plus on-line at I-property and Propertyguru sites.....but cannot help noticed the COV and valuation for the flats there. Yes, some of the older ones have a larger floor area but the look is not so in tune as in Punggol or even Sengkang. Unless go the newer ones near the end of Yee Tee and I went to have a look on last Sunday....noticed lots of FTs ( PRC and Indians ) as there are worker hostels there. Understand these people would sit and messed up the ground floor with their litters eg empty beer bottles and food packaging. So it is not safe.
At Punggol....went to view EA and 5I units, wow....some have very nice fixtures and in "move-in" standard but with higher COV. Also went to view Sengkang....and it is less by 30 to 50K in valuation for some units. The renovations for some are also "good". May have to break the advice if I go for Sengkang....and from the look of things, I will go with the flow with nothing casted in stone!
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