Yes....lately I am going on a movie bling with my honey, having fun and just holding hands. A movie is incomplete without having the na-chas, hotdog or pop corn set during the screening.
I am very passionate when it comes to watching movies...esp the sentimental ones or the funny korean movies. They are quite fun to watch.....damn serious acting.
Am looking forward to seeing "LIE WITH ME" ....next tuesday together with my honey.
Thursday, May 11, 2006
Monday, May 08, 2006
You are my sunshine
Well...the movie does reminds me of my situation not long ago and about myself and my attitude towards LOVE.
A simple....straight forward story about a man's love. Most time...men are simple creatures who love SEX, food, wine and music. Give them that and you control their well-being.
But for me...I find out that I don't fall in love easily or that love even exist hahaha.....then against all odds, I am a victim of it. It is both hell and heaven at the same time....so it depends on the moment of time. LOVE passionately and suffered the "HELL"...then you will appreciate the sweetness of simple moment of being "together" even doing nothing. Just like in the movie...the guy ordered coffee so that the girl can rest...and that he can see her rest and her smile. He is out of the world. Me...too, even just holding your hand or give your hand a massage, makes me "happy"...stupid me hahaha.
True Love....is a very deep feeling, there is no need for sex to get the high of it but of course if there is sex....then it will be even more meaningful.
I have my share of partners after you....younger, prettier but none can really replace you in my heart. One way to see if a guy truly love you....is to see how he will go out of his way to please always, not just one time but always....and he does acts "funny or even stupid" at times. I know becoz I do that and I can't help myself about it. I look "cool" when I am indifferent to the girl, meaning I don't really care what happen to the friendship or relationship...just maybe sex which I feel I can get it from lots of places...no issue at all in singapore if you know where to get from.
A simple....straight forward story about a man's love. Most time...men are simple creatures who love SEX, food, wine and music. Give them that and you control their well-being.
But for me...I find out that I don't fall in love easily or that love even exist hahaha.....then against all odds, I am a victim of it. It is both hell and heaven at the same time....so it depends on the moment of time. LOVE passionately and suffered the "HELL"...then you will appreciate the sweetness of simple moment of being "together" even doing nothing. Just like in the movie...the guy ordered coffee so that the girl can rest...and that he can see her rest and her smile. He is out of the world. Me...too, even just holding your hand or give your hand a massage, makes me "happy"...stupid me hahaha.
True Love....is a very deep feeling, there is no need for sex to get the high of it but of course if there is sex....then it will be even more meaningful.
I have my share of partners after you....younger, prettier but none can really replace you in my heart. One way to see if a guy truly love you....is to see how he will go out of his way to please always, not just one time but always....and he does acts "funny or even stupid" at times. I know becoz I do that and I can't help myself about it. I look "cool" when I am indifferent to the girl, meaning I don't really care what happen to the friendship or relationship...just maybe sex which I feel I can get it from lots of places...no issue at all in singapore if you know where to get from.
Saturday, April 01, 2006
Your wish list or it is just wishful thinking?
What's on your Wish List? It seems to be a growing phenomenon all over the Web.
People are making up lists of their wants and desires (at least in terms of material goods)
and posting them on the Web for all the world to see.
I suppose that's one way of getting what you want.
But that really relies on a friend or family member seeing your list and perhaps buying an item for your birthday, anniversary, or holiday present.
It's literally a form of "wishful thinking."
Now, there's nothing wrong with thinking of those things we'd like.
It's only when your thinking stops there and goes no further that it becomes a kind of useless exercise.
The Broadway star Mary Martin had some choice words to say about that:
"Stop the habit of wishful thinking and start the habit of thoughtful wishes."
So, why not try a simple exercise?
Make your own Wish List of your goals or how you'd like to improve your life.
Include as many items as you like. Now, don't stop there. Opposite each item,
list something you can do to start to make that "wish" come true.
Make it a practical, doable step.
And get in the habit of repeating that step, week after week.
After repeating an action often enough, it becomes a habit, and you'll be on the way to making your own wishes come true.
After all, as Eleanor Roosevelt has said, "It takes as much energy to wish as to plan."
You may not have a fairy godmother to grant you three wishes, but you have something better.
You have yourself.
People are making up lists of their wants and desires (at least in terms of material goods)
and posting them on the Web for all the world to see.
I suppose that's one way of getting what you want.
But that really relies on a friend or family member seeing your list and perhaps buying an item for your birthday, anniversary, or holiday present.
It's literally a form of "wishful thinking."
Now, there's nothing wrong with thinking of those things we'd like.
It's only when your thinking stops there and goes no further that it becomes a kind of useless exercise.
The Broadway star Mary Martin had some choice words to say about that:
"Stop the habit of wishful thinking and start the habit of thoughtful wishes."
So, why not try a simple exercise?
Make your own Wish List of your goals or how you'd like to improve your life.
Include as many items as you like. Now, don't stop there. Opposite each item,
list something you can do to start to make that "wish" come true.
Make it a practical, doable step.
And get in the habit of repeating that step, week after week.
After repeating an action often enough, it becomes a habit, and you'll be on the way to making your own wishes come true.
After all, as Eleanor Roosevelt has said, "It takes as much energy to wish as to plan."
You may not have a fairy godmother to grant you three wishes, but you have something better.
You have yourself.
Might as well love yourself first....right?
Did you ever stop to think about how special you are?
As Gautama Buddha has said, "You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
Now, loving yourself doesn't mean being selfish or conceited. Self-love means recognizing your uniqueness. You are able to see your good points and not continually focus on what you see as "faults." You're more open to change any negatives into positives, because you don't "blame" yourself or feel unworthy. It means you can see your own potential clearly. And after all, you can't give and receive love from others if you don't love yourself. When you can love and accept yourself as you are, nothing can stop you from achieving whatever you desire.
Comedienne Lucille Ball knew this very well. She said, "Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
To help you get the hang of this idea, here's a little exercise to practice with. Don't worry if you feel a little funny or self-conscious at first. That's only natural. All you need is a mirror. Look directly into your eyes and say the following:
"I love and approve of myself just as I am."
It's a great way to both start and end your day.
John Lennon put it in a nutshell, in his whimsical way: "You're just left with yourself all the time, whatever you do anyway. You've got to get down to your own god in your own temple. It's all down to you, mate."
So....don't be afraid to LOVE yourself first, then you will then be able to give and receive LOVE from others.
As Gautama Buddha has said, "You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."
Now, loving yourself doesn't mean being selfish or conceited. Self-love means recognizing your uniqueness. You are able to see your good points and not continually focus on what you see as "faults." You're more open to change any negatives into positives, because you don't "blame" yourself or feel unworthy. It means you can see your own potential clearly. And after all, you can't give and receive love from others if you don't love yourself. When you can love and accept yourself as you are, nothing can stop you from achieving whatever you desire.
Comedienne Lucille Ball knew this very well. She said, "Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
To help you get the hang of this idea, here's a little exercise to practice with. Don't worry if you feel a little funny or self-conscious at first. That's only natural. All you need is a mirror. Look directly into your eyes and say the following:
"I love and approve of myself just as I am."
It's a great way to both start and end your day.
John Lennon put it in a nutshell, in his whimsical way: "You're just left with yourself all the time, whatever you do anyway. You've got to get down to your own god in your own temple. It's all down to you, mate."
So....don't be afraid to LOVE yourself first, then you will then be able to give and receive LOVE from others.
Friday, March 24, 2006
Seven-year itch?
Have you heard of the seven-year itch?
Used to describe a husband's or wife's urge to stray from his or her mate after seven years of marriage, this expression appears to have been invented by American playwright George Axelrod in his play 'The Seven Year Itch' (1952) and further popularized by the film version starring Marilyn Monroe (1955).
Some say that Axelrod overheard a reference to the seven-year itch in regards to a skin irritation. The term had its origins with a microbe commonly called scabies. Scabies produces an itching skin irritation that before modern drugs, lasted, on average, seven years.
Scabies aside, do you believe in the seven-year itch? Have you had the experience where a relationship that lasted seven years suddenly went kaput?
I do believe that we can all become complacent in a relationship, but I don't think the seven-year itch is a given. If you strive every day to give your relationship all you've got, and, if, on a regular basis, you make sure to break out of your routines and try something new, you can avoid the seven-year itch like the plague.
Now my ( 2 cents worth ) view on this.....
Hello to whoever taken the time to stop by and read my contribution to the world of Love...
Well, let's just imagine we had no internet, no websites that deal with matchmaking, and no browsing to allow for temptation outside of a relationship that you already had established and is living and loving to the fullest...Trust me...
"There Would Be No Such Thing As A 7-Years Itch..let alone 7-Days Itch!!.... However, since this world has gone high tech...everyone in it seems to be higher than themselves when finding love or even deciding it's good to be in love.
Now remember there was a time when you would not even consider an emotional attachment unless you got to know an individual you met on spiritual level first...( today's generation has lost that gift and not only that but they choose the first in line to be the One....then when the next One who comes along as the Next ).
In todays' world...we have all the means to see the "package deal first" or even the "mindset" in this form we call the internet...(please be aware that every time you meet someone online in writing...you meet their mind first..before all else - still remember how I met my honey )
How sad can that be to lust first before knowing why you want to lust at all...I personally thought it was about mind, personality and humor before allowing my senses to take over and then desire. Now it's about how you look, what you do, how active are you behind the scenes, and even how much do you have..before one can even consider you of desire. What you possess seems to make that difference of desire...again I say how "sad" is that...!! Or how long your cock...as size play a huge part for a woman's heart.
VERY SAD IN MY VALUE SYSTEM..OF UPBRINGING... As we all know...our ancestors who went on before us...surely are flipping over in their graves wondering...oh my lord...did I teach them that way on the subject of love...?? So yes...in this day and time...The 7-yrs itch should be expected when two people copulate or even relate from the standpoint of how do you fair in possessions...whether it be physical or material.
Forget about the Spiritual, the Mental, the Emotional aspects of relating...we are living in a world that has allowed us to think higher than the technology we utilize to meet and to befriend potential mates...."does it not seem that way"
I Say.."GOD BLESS ALL...WHO HAVE MET IN THE MIND-SELF FIRST...BEFORE MEETING THE PHYSICAL-SELF" BECAUSE LET ME TELL YOU WHEN THE EMOTIONAL-SELF KICKS IN AFTER THOSE FIRST TWO MEETINGS...LIFE WILL BE BLISS ALWAYS UNTIL YOUR ANGELS DECIDE IT'S TIME FOR YOUR GRADUATION TO THE OTHERSIDE....this is the rare ones.
Thank you for letting me share my so-called spiritual insights with you.
Used to describe a husband's or wife's urge to stray from his or her mate after seven years of marriage, this expression appears to have been invented by American playwright George Axelrod in his play 'The Seven Year Itch' (1952) and further popularized by the film version starring Marilyn Monroe (1955).
Some say that Axelrod overheard a reference to the seven-year itch in regards to a skin irritation. The term had its origins with a microbe commonly called scabies. Scabies produces an itching skin irritation that before modern drugs, lasted, on average, seven years.
Scabies aside, do you believe in the seven-year itch? Have you had the experience where a relationship that lasted seven years suddenly went kaput?
I do believe that we can all become complacent in a relationship, but I don't think the seven-year itch is a given. If you strive every day to give your relationship all you've got, and, if, on a regular basis, you make sure to break out of your routines and try something new, you can avoid the seven-year itch like the plague.
Now my ( 2 cents worth ) view on this.....
Hello to whoever taken the time to stop by and read my contribution to the world of Love...
Well, let's just imagine we had no internet, no websites that deal with matchmaking, and no browsing to allow for temptation outside of a relationship that you already had established and is living and loving to the fullest...Trust me...
"There Would Be No Such Thing As A 7-Years Itch..let alone 7-Days Itch!!.... However, since this world has gone high tech...everyone in it seems to be higher than themselves when finding love or even deciding it's good to be in love.
Now remember there was a time when you would not even consider an emotional attachment unless you got to know an individual you met on spiritual level first...( today's generation has lost that gift and not only that but they choose the first in line to be the One....then when the next One who comes along as the Next ).
In todays' world...we have all the means to see the "package deal first" or even the "mindset" in this form we call the internet...(please be aware that every time you meet someone online in writing...you meet their mind first..before all else - still remember how I met my honey )
How sad can that be to lust first before knowing why you want to lust at all...I personally thought it was about mind, personality and humor before allowing my senses to take over and then desire. Now it's about how you look, what you do, how active are you behind the scenes, and even how much do you have..before one can even consider you of desire. What you possess seems to make that difference of desire...again I say how "sad" is that...!! Or how long your cock...as size play a huge part for a woman's heart.
VERY SAD IN MY VALUE SYSTEM..OF UPBRINGING... As we all know...our ancestors who went on before us...surely are flipping over in their graves wondering...oh my lord...did I teach them that way on the subject of love...?? So yes...in this day and time...The 7-yrs itch should be expected when two people copulate or even relate from the standpoint of how do you fair in possessions...whether it be physical or material.
Forget about the Spiritual, the Mental, the Emotional aspects of relating...we are living in a world that has allowed us to think higher than the technology we utilize to meet and to befriend potential mates...."does it not seem that way"
I Say.."GOD BLESS ALL...WHO HAVE MET IN THE MIND-SELF FIRST...BEFORE MEETING THE PHYSICAL-SELF" BECAUSE LET ME TELL YOU WHEN THE EMOTIONAL-SELF KICKS IN AFTER THOSE FIRST TWO MEETINGS...LIFE WILL BE BLISS ALWAYS UNTIL YOUR ANGELS DECIDE IT'S TIME FOR YOUR GRADUATION TO THE OTHERSIDE....this is the rare ones.
Thank you for letting me share my so-called spiritual insights with you.
This will cause problem...inbalance in sexual appetite.
Some couples are well-matched in the sexual desire department. Others are not.
Most of us are sometimes on equal footing with our partners regarding sexual appetite, and sometimes not.
Low sexual desire isn't a problem, unless one partner has a higher level.
Then it really is the discrepancy that is causing the problem, not the low desire.
And despite the old myth that women are inclined to say, "Not tonight, honey, I have a headache,"
the truth is that in about 45% of relationships with a desire discrepancy, it is the man who has the migraine.
( not me...I am always ready to rock & roll with my honey any time, even now - thinking of her makes my cock stand. She is a truly nasty firm-butt fucker )
It's important not to confuse love with sexual desire.
Many people feel that if their partner loved them (as much as they love their partner),
they would also desire them as much. And it's just not true.
For most of us, our desire fluctuates over time dependent on daily stresses as well as place in the life cycle (adolescence through old age).
But for some of us, low sexual desire can be a function of a physiological problem or relationship issue. Like the one between hubby and wife over any of the following : finanical different, children issue, work-related stress or in-law issue. But at the end of the day, there is a problem that caused this sexual disfunction.
As we live in this modern time....the stress we faced in our daily life often make things worst for our sexual relationship.
Still there are some with a huge appetite for kinky sex...unless they are matched with another of the same appetite than there is a likelyhood of straying. And this does not need to be the 7-yrs itch thing....more like 7-days or 7-months thing for this type of person ( the so-called "born to fuck" type ).
Most of us are sometimes on equal footing with our partners regarding sexual appetite, and sometimes not.
Low sexual desire isn't a problem, unless one partner has a higher level.
Then it really is the discrepancy that is causing the problem, not the low desire.
And despite the old myth that women are inclined to say, "Not tonight, honey, I have a headache,"
the truth is that in about 45% of relationships with a desire discrepancy, it is the man who has the migraine.
( not me...I am always ready to rock & roll with my honey any time, even now - thinking of her makes my cock stand. She is a truly nasty firm-butt fucker )
It's important not to confuse love with sexual desire.
Many people feel that if their partner loved them (as much as they love their partner),
they would also desire them as much. And it's just not true.
For most of us, our desire fluctuates over time dependent on daily stresses as well as place in the life cycle (adolescence through old age).
But for some of us, low sexual desire can be a function of a physiological problem or relationship issue. Like the one between hubby and wife over any of the following : finanical different, children issue, work-related stress or in-law issue. But at the end of the day, there is a problem that caused this sexual disfunction.
As we live in this modern time....the stress we faced in our daily life often make things worst for our sexual relationship.
Still there are some with a huge appetite for kinky sex...unless they are matched with another of the same appetite than there is a likelyhood of straying. And this does not need to be the 7-yrs itch thing....more like 7-days or 7-months thing for this type of person ( the so-called "born to fuck" type ).
Guess...most of the time, men are unfaithful but time has changed :(
Do you think that most married men are unfaithful to their wives? You're not alone. Researchers at the Kinsey Institute found that most Americans believe that 50-80% of married men are unfaithful.
Is it true? Let's give men some credit here. Findings from a variety of surveys in the last ten years found that clearly less than 50% of men engaged in infidelity (range from 12-38%). This is a big WOW! becoz in the mind of the women, it is usually the men who are likely to stray. How wrong?
In fact, another study of divorced couples found that infidelity was the #3 reason for the divorce, after poor communication and constant fighting ( over whatever issues that crop-up ).
What's the take home message? Instead of spending time worrying about whether your partner is cheating on you, your marriage would be better served by spending time communicating your needs and listening to your partner's.
My ( 2-cents worth ) view.
Well...becoz of the above, even the women here are having a "go" to be unfaithful too. Guess....this is meant to be fair esp in their mind, they usually blamed their men folks for every of their faults.
This is easily verified by stationing oneself at the entrance to any Hotel 81 then you can judge for yourself the fact that there are as many married men and women into this type of behaviour. No more just one-sided anymore even here in S'pore.
Have seen very old couple too....Man! what the fish that old lady does inside the room? So gross.....:(
Is it true? Let's give men some credit here. Findings from a variety of surveys in the last ten years found that clearly less than 50% of men engaged in infidelity (range from 12-38%). This is a big WOW! becoz in the mind of the women, it is usually the men who are likely to stray. How wrong?
In fact, another study of divorced couples found that infidelity was the #3 reason for the divorce, after poor communication and constant fighting ( over whatever issues that crop-up ).
What's the take home message? Instead of spending time worrying about whether your partner is cheating on you, your marriage would be better served by spending time communicating your needs and listening to your partner's.
My ( 2-cents worth ) view.
Well...becoz of the above, even the women here are having a "go" to be unfaithful too. Guess....this is meant to be fair esp in their mind, they usually blamed their men folks for every of their faults.
This is easily verified by stationing oneself at the entrance to any Hotel 81 then you can judge for yourself the fact that there are as many married men and women into this type of behaviour. No more just one-sided anymore even here in S'pore.
Have seen very old couple too....Man! what the fish that old lady does inside the room? So gross.....:(
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