Different people, different lifestyles

Oh....I noticed when I read today's Strait Times - Life columnabout feedbacks on marriage, commitment, love, and cute thing.It is about Prince Charles, Princess Diana and Camilla Parker. Andhow people's view of the whole thing. One felt that "love" is over-rated in present times...and true love can happen if the person has moral and religious obligation to stay marriged regardlessof the state of their union. Good measurement? Man! they haveto be very strong in their believe in God for that. At the end...PrinceCharles marriaged Camilla...his first love. "Love" conquered all.Well....to me, it is not a good example due to the fact that theylive a "spectacular" lifestyle a fairy-tale to most of us. Unthinkable!Their worries of the day....are which party or function to attend forthe day?....whose design they are going to wear?....what food theyare going to put into their mouth to eat?....who is the lucky personto clean their ass after they are done?....how does they look duringthe day? Man! we gotto to pay bills, meet deadlines, bring homethe bacons and ensured the kids/spouse/in-law are happy and fed.hahaha....power!!! So for me....I go for "commitment". Commitmentto a relationship be it as a couple, as friends or whatever is the mostimportant first step. It is more than a matter of "give and take" but"respect" for one another. Giving "space" to breath, to have ownfriends and activities while doing one's own things. No control butblind trust....of course with fully understanding and open communication.Powerful ideals.....hehehe and it is not easy to do but for the sake of"love", one must try. Do you agree?Just my talking point for the day....open to discussion.Take care...and have a nice day ahead and a great weekend too.