Friday, May 13, 2005

True friend

Friendship....

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and
impossible to forget.


TRUE FRIENDSHIP "NEVER" ENDS. Friends are FOREVER.

The funny thing about human nature is that when things happen we are so quick to judge and assume and wait too late to apologize or say I'm sorry but I heard a ONCE good friend say "Most people walk in and out of your life, but only true friends leave footprints in your heart." And I've had one good friend who left footprints on my heart and the sad thing about it is, that I see the person almost everyday and we pass like nobody's business and I wouldn't be shamed to say I was mad in the beginning because I thought really highly of that person. I in turn distanced myself from there're attitude towards me becuase I felt they were being difficult and not mature enough to come and say how they felt about whatever transpired to cause a rift.

A grudge is a heavy thing to carry.

True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it is lost.~ Charles Caleb Colton

Nevertheless I got over that because I figured to myself that if we were really true friends, they wouldn't listen to other people so I guess we weren't TRUE friends afterall. However I am not going to let the past hold me back; cause I'll be missing the good stuff.

So thought for the week is: Even though that you might "think" you are in the right and can justify you're actions for being mean or holding hatred against someone for whatever they did towards you,it doesn't mean that you cant forgive them. Nothing beats forgiveness because we don't know what we might do to someone and would want that person to forgive us. Don't allow pride and cloudy judgement to control our decisions, if you can't apologize before things are blown out of porportion then don't be vengeful. I am sorry I didn't apologize in the beginning but I know it was meant to be that way anyhow. SO if this week you happen to cross paths with someone who you think deserves a tongue lashing or a friend who you believed has betrayed you; think hard about your actions and their consequences before you loose a friend that you'll truly miss.

Love ya!

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