KINSEY's theory on sex.

I went to watch the movie "KINSEY"...and I came away enlightened. Yah...that is the right word...ENLIGHTEN. My understanding of sex seem so hallow even when it comes to what
some people do the things they do....like gay, les, swing and others eg bi. The movie does
explored most of these and also give some insights to people's thinking and preceptions to
them. Not all people take too kindly towards the actions of the above mentioned, but do
they have a right to control or condemn anyone who is not the same as themselves. While
they also are aware of some of their own actions. In sex....there is no right or wrong. Just
got to live with the consquence of one's actions or preferences. But still there shall be limits
....fine thin lines drawn in the sand where no one should cross. All these...are in the mind of
every one of us. Some always try to stretch that limits....they are the extremist but who is to
say that they are wrong.
As for me....I am still a old-fashion guy with some kinky ideas of my own. But I am opening
up....I may give swinging a try one day...maybe a soft swing for a start. Man...my honey is
very open minded about all these. I love her enough to trust her and her openness. I have to
keep up with times....learning about myself and others along the way. Never too late to start.
If there is any concern to me about the whole business of swinging....is health. VD, aids, herpes
and others. You may never know these people too well. I lead a healthy lifestyle....no extreme
this and that, so I fear it. Even when come to drinking...I too have limts.

Good one here...words of wisdom.

BEFORE YOU COMPLAIN
>> > Today before you think of saying an unkind word> > Think of someone who can't speak>
>> > Before you complain about the taste of your food> > Think of someone who has nothing to eat>
>> > Before you complain of not having enough> > Think of someone who's begging on the street>
>> > Before you complaint of being ugly> > Think of someone who's actually in the worst of states of life>
>> > Before you complain about your husband or wife> > Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion>
>> > Today before you complain about life> > Think of someone who went too early to heaven>
>> > Before you complain about your children> > Think of someone who desires children but they're barren> >> > Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep> > Think of the people who are living in the streets>
>> > Before whining about the distance you drive> > Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet>
>> > And when you are tired and complain about your job> > Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job>
>> > But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another> > Remember that not one of us are without sin and>
>> > We all answer to one maker> > And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down> > Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around>
>> > Life is a gift> > Live it...> Enjoy it...> Celebrate it...> And fulfill it.>
>> > And while you are at it give love to someone today> > Love someone with what you do and the words you say>
>> > Love is not meant to be kept locked inside of us and hidden>> > So give it away>
>> > Give Love to someone today!! > > You don't love someone because they're beautiful. > > They're beautiful because you love them.
>> > It's true you don't know what you've got until its gone, but its also true > > You don't know what you've been missing until it arrives!!!>
>> > To send a letter is a good way to go somewhere without moving anything,> > but your heart.

The fun and misery of loving someone too deeply.

Well...I am stating this thru my experince which I am going thru now. The fun part....really having a ball of a time of knowing there is someone out there that you really want to share everything with. Food, shelter, happiness, health, money, time, fun, giving up with sleeping less, every little things and sex. With the love one beside...everything is double the fun or done with higher intenscity. Take food as example...even tasteless food but shared with your love one, it tastes great. Sex...give the added thrill to go slow and prolong the joy and pleasure. Got to enjoy the taste of it. Give butterfly feeling in the stomach whenever she is around...I behave properly and gentlemanly. Very careful with my look and dressing...so as not to cause her to lose "face". All these...are the fun and good part of loving someone deeply. Yes! the benefits are both ways. Have greater confidence of ownself and appearance improved too.
Now...the down side, too much love can also cause tension and unwant attention. Asking for more time than she is prepared to give. I do hate myself at times....for causing her any stress due to my demands for her time and attention. So....better I wise up or I lose her for good which is the worst possible outcome for me. That is to me the misery of loving someone too deeply. I must learn to give and take...and roll with the momentum of time in order to preserve whatever feeling and love which I have got till now.
Guess...loving too deeply is not the "reserve" for female kind only. Man too can kena the addiction too. Even older man!!! Man!!! hehehe. What do you think of my silly thoughts...honey pie?

One month since the tsunami

Wow...already one month since the big waves hit and many life changed forever. Mine too....no longer can think that the beautiful beaches and seaside resorts are safe places. Any moment...nothing left standing. My thinking about life is totally shattered by the tsunami. I now understand that life on this world....is nothing but a passing moment and it is up to us to make things happen. Happy or sad...it is up to you. Maybe your love one can help makes things better and livable. So it is the same too for your love one...you owe it to make their life happy and livable too. I promised to do my best to make my honey happy...and contented be it "sex" or anything. I will put
in more efforts into all things I do including my work, my caring for my family and honey, whenever I have sex...only power sex count! no chicken effort or by the way type. Meaning...will do all that needs to be done. Sex without any emotional attachment also don't mean a thing...so must have closeness and together plus the feeling to please and enjoy each other bodies and senses. Nothing dirty or bad....just full blooded hot sex. Do it
well or don't do at all...that is my aim.

Wow...long time since my last up-dating

Guess...I didn't have much time especially after the company started to monitor our usage of the company internet for personal use. I don't want to give them an excuse to give me any trouble. So I cut down on it.
Then for the last couple of weeks...so many things to do eg : go for training in AIA, meetings and meet clients.
Run errands for clients and the many screw-ups happening along the way. Man...so so tired and luckily I have
my honey to give me encouragement and love to keep me going and going. Thanks honey pie. My firm butt mama....hehehe.
Thinking of her....man! I get horny. So important to have someone to love and to share the hard living for all of us especially living here in S'pore. Work stress, family stress, living stress, health stress and money stress. Any one
of these stresses...is bad for any one but we live with at least a couple or worst 3 or 4 of them at any one time.
The only time...I can have my heaven is when I am with my honey in my arm and loving her. Slowly kissing, licking and sucking her....man! that is heaven on earth for me.

Enjoying the simple things in life

LiFE cAN sTiLL bE GrEAt iF oNE will do the simple things in life. Well I drink a can of beer after washing and cleaning up all my fish tanks. I drink while watching TV about the eagle catching monkeys. Man! there is this gaint eagle ( 9kgs with huge tandons on legs as thick as a man's arm ) flying thru the jungle, grabbing gibbons and monkeys weighing about the same as the eagle by killing it's pray instantly when tandons crushed the skull or heart of the victim. Power!
Of course I don't wish to see the death of the victims be it monkey or anything else but since it was on TV I might as well learned that this thing existed...the gaint eagle and it's hunting habits. BTW, cannot feed the eagle with rice or vegetable or grass. Too bad they feed on meat....live and freshly killed animal, in this case monkeys. That's life.
Enough...said. Sighed. Better think of another example of the above....Ya! I know one, I also ate 2 bowls of yummy ice-cream. Man! that is better also while watching football results on ESPN channels.

Monday...and I slept the whole day

Man! I slept most of the day until my boss called me to make noise that I missed an appointment. By that time it was already 3pm and the appointment was for 12:30pm.
Well...at least I had a good rest and now I am fresh as a daisy. Only thing left to do is to wait for my honey so that I can max her screaming. While waiting I have loaded up with more silly and stupid ideas for her pleasure hehehe. Man! that is me. I am here to try to make things happen....fantasies and all.
Life is short and if you think carefully....it is shorter than you know. Meaning the productive years are limited and for myself I am nearing my expiry date soon. So all out....live my remaining productive years like there is no tomorrow.