Point of view

Yes! there will always be different points of views even when looking at one picture. I can safely said this to be true even to one person who looks at the same picture but at different times will give different views. So what more to talk when views came from different people from different backgrounds and up-bringing.
To me....all are right....no wrong, so just learn to respect others for their point of views. Can offer different things or talking points but at the end of it all...everyone is entitled to state his/her own view.
I have seen and go thru lots of experience in life....and I am still learning from others .... young and old people alike. One thing I learn about life is.....we need to see things from different angles just to know more about it.
If we just look from one side....then we are very shallow in our understanding. At times....our views are blocked by our pride or stubborness. I have learn be humble. Now I get along with people better and I am happier too.
Take this morning for example....a guy drove very fast just to over take me but at the end of the road when we stopped at the traffic light, I am in front of him by 2 cars length. Why?? becoz he got caught in slow traffic in the inside lane....hehehe. While I just kept to the fast lane and no car in front of me. Even I drive at a constant speed I still was in front while he was cutting in and out of traffic. Here....teach me one lesson, look before you jump or have patient and one day things will be better.

Life, love and generation gap

Well...why this topic, guess I have mellowed a lot since returning from China. Have seen and experience lots of things while I just show others only pictures. I feel there is no need to say some of the more personal things that happened during my trip. But on the whole....I like to think the result is a good one for everybody and I am most happy for all.....love ones included.
Now....about life, there are something on the surface that we cannot explain or complain about. Things do happen for a reason but at times, just cannot see and know why does it happen till after sometime later. Even some will have no ending. Life does play games with our feeling, thinking and wanting. What you want may never turn up right? I have since lower down my expectation to grass level from table top high for everything including family, friends and working partners. This makes me....less angry when things don't change out the way I want.
For....love, same thing also....kena played times and times again. Lately I have stop thinking about it
....hehehe sound familiar. It is okay with me....which finally bring me to the next topic the "generation gap".
Yes! my feel for this is....no problem if I am very rich guy but since I am not. This is my main downfall in the game of love. Well....I should just stick to my wife and I will solve this issue also. At last...this could be the answer to my problem. Keep my eyes and hands to myself...go smell flowers or do gardening. Man! this bring me back to life again....so at times, we just live our life the same ways as our grandparents and their grandparents did a long long time ago....not knowing what we should do or how best to use our time in this world for. I have no good answer to all of the above really....guess I am a travelling man, moving and moving to the times and the ebbs of it all with no real goal or aim even now.
Living day to day....at least I should consider my life as fair or maybe even good as compared to others. Many or if not most people, also have no aim or propose in their lifes and they have to work very very hard to earn a living just to get by. See some very poor people during the trip...I respected some of them even that they are very poor they have pride not to go round asking for help but they do what they can even eating from the rubbish bins. Pity but they are still proud.
For me, I am still looking for what I should do with my life and......still a long way to travel to find my propose in my life.

Getting cheem!!!!

Hehehe....well, maybe getting tired of things that have happened to me. Good and bad things, guess I am too proud to admit the bad things so I always like to stick to the good ones only. Ending up with people thinking and seeing things the way I want to be.
To me....what is the use of digging up the past and end up sad and unhappy. What pass is past....just want to have good memories of good and sweet times. Life is more bearable with this way of thinking. That is how I feel what things should be.....especially past relationship, friendship and past love affairs. I love to see all of my love ones and friends still doing well if not better now.....it will make me happy for them. For them to suffer will sadden me greatly.....
After getting cheem lately....I am more sensitive to other's happiness and joys. They have that rights too. To live and play as what they want with their lifes.

Came to work...2nd night already

Well...already 2nd night at work, more or less settled down with the daily routine. But have to go to YS's mom wake at Serangoon Ave 3. Lucky most of the other supervisors were there too. Must give support to friend when he has this sad situation. Yes! I came to be more understanding to other's troubles and problems. Because we too will face this situation too as I still have a father and a mother-in-law. Sat there for about an hour eating groundnuts. Guess that is my only time when I love to eat groundnuts. For this year, already attend the 2nd wake for friend's parent and relative. Enough for one year....hahaha.
At work again....the people are still fighting over trolleys, silly old goats. Guess they are just a one-trick donkey, hard to teach them to look at things from another angle. Operators and leads are the same....sad but true. Still have a long way to go to teach them well.
Well....as for myself, things are more clearer and settled. Just move on with life and will encourage my love one to do the same. No point to nut pick all the times and be happy. For that is what you owe yourself to do it. If you are happy, then others will also be happy for you.
Had a reasonable good sleep before coming to work....thank god!

1st Day at work

Man! back to work again....guess what all the aunties waiting to complain about each other. Luckily I was fast enough by letting them have some goodies first then tell China trip stories but also poked them in the stories. End-up they just open mouths and wondering what am I talking about....very cheem!!! hehehe.
Guess....this is the best way without firing anyone and they still have their pride with them. In stories I already sound out my warning to them to toe the line or go against me and that will be a bad choice for anyone of them to take. And it works...."LL" they smile and go off to eat the tit-bits.
AUNTIES will be forever be AUNTIES....narrow minded and petty. Sure don't want to be in their husband's shoe. I cannot tahan this type of thinking.
Lucky for me that my love ones.....are open minded and educated. Guess I am blessed to meet more of such type of persons as friends and so on.
Still having headache....must swallow a couple of panadols after this.

Man!...hangover

Hahaha...had 3 glasses of mix Dom with lime juice last night. Man! wake-up with a hangover in the middle of the night to watch last night match-up between Chelsea and CSKA for the last 20 mins.
After that sleep again....great! Got to drink lots of water to got over the feeling. Mix the
drinks to give the right mood for my better half but before the drink effects can get to
her I am knock off hehehe. So much for a seducer!
Loved one....hope you can understand me, got to do my household duties too but somehow didn't do anything but sleep well. Today I will be working...and for the next 4 nights straight. Can't wait for Monday again.....hehehe.
After this I will go to the Aia office to submit the cases....got to get the system fire-up I have been lazy for too long and after the trip also quite tight.

Poor soul...may god take care of her soul.

Sad to read and confirmed the death of the little china girl. To die alone and at the hands of the person she trusted...very sad.
Even with all prejudices around in Singapore of people against china women....we Singaporean can be proud that we are humans after all when the death of this little girl did touched us all.
So let us let some of our prejudices go free with this poor girl death....to free our own soul of such prejudices when we read that her mother goes around Singapore crying out her daughter's name to find her not knowing she was already gone....dead alone in a box naked.
God....please give her a better next life.

Lucky soul...

Noticed that I got to change the timing for the posting to reflect the time more clearly. If I need to be clear in this blog.
But then again...who cares? I want to be the lucky soul to kena the first prize for tonight's toto draw. I will elope with my loved one...my honey...my everything...my soul and heart.
My inner beauty is crying out loud for you......my loved one!

Second day already....back from China.

Man! lost the posting....hehehe! must be too powerful and kena censored....that is life! But I was thinking about my time and present in this world and what it means to me. Maybe there are somethings written that should not be read....hahaha.
So here are some other things I feel today....the second day back from China.
Yes! I cannot deny that China people are not too trustworthy as a whole....but that also can happen to other people too even me and you....at times, I felt they bought this feeling upon themselves from their earlier hard times which most people don't realise. They themselves have the same feeling about their kind too. So....too bad.
Now....I just want to be happy with my love ones. To see her smile, made me smile too. To see her happy....I too will be happy. So my loved one if you see this....your happiness is far more important than mine to myself. Called me a fool, called me a old fool...well I will be glad if you smile at the end of it. hahaha. Then go ahead to call me anything if it will make you happier and smile. I am a slave of love...love to my loved one. Yes! I have my defects but at the end of it all....I still will love you with or without you loving me back becoz love cannot be force and I accept it in this form and shape. I may take up your suggestion of putting up all my past experiences. I will find the time to do that but first I need to recall slowly all the stories....good, bad, sweet, sad, happy and fond ones too. Guess I had my fair shares in all of the above. But now....I am happy just to see you smile and happy.

Not bad...good start!

Had a nice feeling....that things will be good and will turn better for me. I have learn to be patient with people and not to judge people by their color, wealth, past, smartness and age but by their inner beauty. They have it or they don't....cannot hide for long. Well...I now understand inner beauty clearer now. Eg...don't expect or ask for anything in return when we are with so called friends...hair also black but just cannot see their heart and also sometimes we cannot see our own hearts too. Things can and do changes.
When sharing food with the so called poor people I can see their richness in their heart. Guess we cannot look at things or hear things from third parties and we judged all the Chinese as bad or dishonest people, very hallow way of looking at things. Guess...trust is very important for a good start and we must also earn their trust too.
On the plane...the stewardesses reminded me of a friend. Now....I know how Indonesian people look like, hehehe....guess that must be the in-thing for Indonesian ladies. Man! both ways also have some stewardesses' with the look. Hehehe cute!

Came back in one piece.

Hehehe...well! reached Singapore and sms some of my good friends to let them know. Guess some are happy and some are not...so let them be. As for my trip, it was fun and enriching to see how others' live and work. Different cultures different expectations and different tastes.
The worst thing was the wait at the clearment for passport to board the plane...long Q and so many locals jump the Q and made things worst. Anyway the plane still was delay due to that for 45 mins.
Met many nice peoples, ate many nice foods, spent over budget. Met old friends there and they invited me to visit their houses and shared their meals. Poor people are less proud and more willing to share their hospitallity. I am touched by the friendliness. Have given them my views of things they can do as business especially in the food lines. Big potential especially the huge crowd of peoples everywhere.
Bought a couple of hello kitty leather things for kitty...guess kitty must be too busy with own things lately. Don't want to disturb kitty's happiness. Will go to company and give some of small tokens and tit-bits to the leads and floats. Man! damn heavy to carry the whole load back. Only now...catch my breath to read my mails and reply to some.