Chinese New Year's blues.....

Guess my honey is not alone having this problem at this time of the year. Yah...come on! just think of it, how do we spent our past CNY...??? Man! it is one of most boring times of the year to me...not only that, got to spend the most too. For what? just to keep up with our past for our parents and elders' sake. Maybe ...great for small children but even the older ones don't really care too much if not for collecting some "ang pows"
What I hate is the crowds everywhere and the rush....to buy this and that. Most of the times...hardly finished eating them all and gotto eat left-overs for days.
This year...I have invited my ex, her brother and friend to join us for re-union dinner. Nothing too fanciful...just a steamboat plus a few other dishes. Saw it somewhere...that it is good to have more people having the re-union dinner thing which is supposed to be good start for the year. Then after that...likely to go pray pray till early morning so that I can sleep late till evening to go straight to work. Want to see my honey but believe that is not possible due to family's commitments.
Wish that it is over fast....so that my honey and my life can get back to normal....quiet and peaceful. No stress or rush....just quiet! and low key.
But....since this is the time for joys!!! Cheers!!!

KINSEY's theory on sex.

I went to watch the movie "KINSEY"...and I came away enlightened. Yah...that is the right word...ENLIGHTEN. My understanding of sex seem so hallow even when it comes to what
some people do the things they do....like gay, les, swing and others eg bi. The movie does
explored most of these and also give some insights to people's thinking and preceptions to
them. Not all people take too kindly towards the actions of the above mentioned, but do
they have a right to control or condemn anyone who is not the same as themselves. While
they also are aware of some of their own actions. In sex....there is no right or wrong. Just
got to live with the consquence of one's actions or preferences. But still there shall be limits
....fine thin lines drawn in the sand where no one should cross. All these...are in the mind of
every one of us. Some always try to stretch that limits....they are the extremist but who is to
say that they are wrong.
As for me....I am still a old-fashion guy with some kinky ideas of my own. But I am opening
up....I may give swinging a try one day...maybe a soft swing for a start. Man...my honey is
very open minded about all these. I love her enough to trust her and her openness. I have to
keep up with times....learning about myself and others along the way. Never too late to start.
If there is any concern to me about the whole business of swinging....is health. VD, aids, herpes
and others. You may never know these people too well. I lead a healthy lifestyle....no extreme
this and that, so I fear it. Even when come to drinking...I too have limts.

Good one here...words of wisdom.

BEFORE YOU COMPLAIN
>> > Today before you think of saying an unkind word> > Think of someone who can't speak>
>> > Before you complain about the taste of your food> > Think of someone who has nothing to eat>
>> > Before you complain of not having enough> > Think of someone who's begging on the street>
>> > Before you complaint of being ugly> > Think of someone who's actually in the worst of states of life>
>> > Before you complain about your husband or wife> > Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion>
>> > Today before you complain about life> > Think of someone who went too early to heaven>
>> > Before you complain about your children> > Think of someone who desires children but they're barren> >> > Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep> > Think of the people who are living in the streets>
>> > Before whining about the distance you drive> > Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet>
>> > And when you are tired and complain about your job> > Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job>
>> > But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another> > Remember that not one of us are without sin and>
>> > We all answer to one maker> > And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down> > Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around>
>> > Life is a gift> > Live it...> Enjoy it...> Celebrate it...> And fulfill it.>
>> > And while you are at it give love to someone today> > Love someone with what you do and the words you say>
>> > Love is not meant to be kept locked inside of us and hidden>> > So give it away>
>> > Give Love to someone today!! > > You don't love someone because they're beautiful. > > They're beautiful because you love them.
>> > It's true you don't know what you've got until its gone, but its also true > > You don't know what you've been missing until it arrives!!!>
>> > To send a letter is a good way to go somewhere without moving anything,> > but your heart.