What about piggy bank? Well my topic is relationship....all relationships in fact whether between spouse, lovers, family, relatives, friends and peers. There must be an element of "saving" or putting in something always so that when things fall apart, you can redraw some of the saving to
put things right again.
Find this to be especially true for spouse or lovers relationship.....or in fact for all ( as stated earlier above ). Whatever is done or to be done....spared a little thought or prepare a "retreat"
just in case of screwing up. So must do all the little things whenever there are chances for it.
Hence....the piggy bank idea. Can make "Big Issue" into "small issue" and "Small Issue" into no issue.
Got myself thinking after watching the movie....Spangish, Closer, Linsey, Hitch, even Hide n Seek. Some movies are really great....especially the stories they are be of "good knowledge" and are educating. Open up my mind....and eyes. After 48 years on earth....I am still learning and exploring with myself and surrounding.
Thursday, April 07, 2005
Man...seem like all the old men starting to "mati"
This show that all men and women will finally "mati" even with the greatest of medical care. Recently the pope and yesterday it was Prince Rainer of Monoco....and it will be a matter of time
when MM Lee kicks the bucket too. If these great VIP can "mati", then so can we....right?
So....no need to fear death, just make your peace and be ready always. What I meant about making your peace??? Whatever important things are to be kept together and let your love ones aware of where they are kept. Make up with all your love ones....immediate family first....meaning spouse then children, followed by parents then brothers and sisters, aunties and uncles and so on. Yah....love ones included BF and GF or honey. Try your best to provide them "well" after your passing so that they will missed you or if not....then they will just wish they never know you. That is life....never be a burden to anyone including family and friends.
With the lastest story of pro-life group in the US and else where, it is also good to inform your love ones on how they should do with your dead body or when you no longer able to talk or to decide on your own fate. Vegetable....the case in US, living dead for 15 years and deeply divide the family...spouse and parents.
As for me....pull the plug fast whenever I am a vegetable. When dead, burn my remain and shatter the ash in the sea or a nice quiet park. If that is too troublesome, just flush it down a loo.
No need to put in temples...waste money and so troublesome come "cheng meng".
No pity needed here or for me.....I am just stating my request.
when MM Lee kicks the bucket too. If these great VIP can "mati", then so can we....right?
So....no need to fear death, just make your peace and be ready always. What I meant about making your peace??? Whatever important things are to be kept together and let your love ones aware of where they are kept. Make up with all your love ones....immediate family first....meaning spouse then children, followed by parents then brothers and sisters, aunties and uncles and so on. Yah....love ones included BF and GF or honey. Try your best to provide them "well" after your passing so that they will missed you or if not....then they will just wish they never know you. That is life....never be a burden to anyone including family and friends.
With the lastest story of pro-life group in the US and else where, it is also good to inform your love ones on how they should do with your dead body or when you no longer able to talk or to decide on your own fate. Vegetable....the case in US, living dead for 15 years and deeply divide the family...spouse and parents.
As for me....pull the plug fast whenever I am a vegetable. When dead, burn my remain and shatter the ash in the sea or a nice quiet park. If that is too troublesome, just flush it down a loo.
No need to put in temples...waste money and so troublesome come "cheng meng".
No pity needed here or for me.....I am just stating my request.
Monday, April 04, 2005
The pope has passed away
Guess even the greatest and so powerful human still got to go thru life same as other human beings. Birth and death....it is a cycle thing for all of us.
I got this feeling when I heard the news of his passing.....sad and happy both at the same time. Sad is that the world is losing a great and important man that can shape the world and his comments are act upon and is listen to. Happy because he is very old and with many sickness, he keeps pushing himself to try to show to the world and his followers the right way to live. Especially with the big divide that exist at the present moment....religions, rich/poor, the colors of the skin and the languages. It is a divided world....he suffers no more now since he goes to heaven. Hope he will smiles at us and bless us with our daily lives.
I got this feeling when I heard the news of his passing.....sad and happy both at the same time. Sad is that the world is losing a great and important man that can shape the world and his comments are act upon and is listen to. Happy because he is very old and with many sickness, he keeps pushing himself to try to show to the world and his followers the right way to live. Especially with the big divide that exist at the present moment....religions, rich/poor, the colors of the skin and the languages. It is a divided world....he suffers no more now since he goes to heaven. Hope he will smiles at us and bless us with our daily lives.
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