A Sad Day for me to know the truth.

Yes! I am so so so sad....that my soulmate is going thru hell for her foolish actions.
"True Love" sounds very hollow when the person who claim he/she is seeking "true love" may not fully understand that this to most young men just mean they "love" to have sex....esp "free sex & with someone's wife - since they can move on if something "screw-up" eg ... getting pregnant since someone else will take care of his off-spring while he goes around sowing his wild oats" and that is why they don't even bother to wear a condom when they screw becoz when things go wrong....they will leave, period!
Worst if they don't leave, you better wise up to this fact asap. If you don't believe what I said here...then test him, ask him to pay for the hospital bills for the whole affair. When he knows that he has to pay $$$$. He will likely to totally disappeared from your sight and immediately stop all his "sweet nothing" and to have anything to do with you also he will stop accepting your sms, email & calls. In other words....you are "dumped", pronto!
Especially when you are to him just one more "scoring" for his profile/experience/boasting to his friends....but this is just the start of your nightmare and the beginning of "hell" for your children. You better hope that he does not has any pic/video of his "screwing" you in his hp or your life will be worst than "hell" soon. If he is a student...or ex-student or new teacher, you should noticed "gossips or weird looks" by now in your school. Remember the Tammy Chua & Susan Tan - NYP sex video stories?
Soon....you shall be in the news too from the way you lived your life. Remember this, "never screw around in the place where you earn your living" ....you are playing with fire! by doing this.
This show that he is too childlish ( by the way, he must be either a student, ex-student or a new teacher - I did noticed your "sudden" interest in your school activities last year, hope you didn't do your scoring in the class or during your field trip esp camping trip anyway it doesn't surprise me if you have done that since I know you "well" ) or that he has not "wake-up" to the facts about what is happening or the troubles he is "in" now or that...he is totally not bother to what happen to you as he just act "blur" & just ask you to take "good care of his baby" as seen in your blog's tag-box ....this is the worst type. The "bo-chap & bo-kan" type.
If you choose him.....your children will be the "ones" who will suffer more in future becoz he is likely not able to even support himself "fully" at the moment or anytime soon, he may turn abusive when he feels "blocked or box-in" if you are to live with him in the future. The children will be the first to be abused esp M & M since they are not his, then M & M will hate you till the end of their lifes becoz of your actions or blindness. Pls read the abused cases in the newspapers...how similar to this situation, agree? How the mother's new toyboy abused the children when he has to stay to help out on looking after them.
Please wake up....see what happen to your mom's situation and your mom's situation is much better than yours now at least she is not caught having other guy's baby and you still have trouble with her. Do you want your children to act like you? By the way, have you made up with your mom? Go and make your peace with her.....for goodness sake!
You still have the power to change some of things you have done since you have a strong earning power....so be strong since you must "pay" the price for the path you have already taken but remember that don't ever make your children pay for your mistakes again.
You can still count on me.....to be there for you. As I am not any fair-weather friend/soulmate since now you have come "clean" with me on this whole situation. I forgive you, and I can only hope for your sake that Mr Tan can do the same too.